Re-incarnation & Sex.

When you press into thoughts of re-incarnation or rebirth, you realise that you may well have been married thousands upon thousands of times over your lifetimes and truly loved each spouse.  So turning to your current spouse you realise that you have loved before and they too were the love of your life.  This may not be a shock in Asia where they believe in re-incarnation and realise their spouse is just for one life.


The strongest logic that shows sex as an illusion is that upon contemplating re-incarnation over the aeons that we have existed.  Over 3 billion years on Earth [life on Earth], and the next 500 million years before the sun gets to hot for life or water to exist on earth.  We find that we are all related.  Go back to a previous life and you may find that your lover in this life may have been a close relative in a past life.  In turn we are all related over the aeons of existence.  Sex between people is an illusion.  And relationships between people have to be re-thought.  As the Buddhists say- we are companions through time. 

For the human race to continue in the future we could use IVF to conceive children, or try not to think and do it the old-fashioned way.

The process from unwinding from a spouse is to logically remove the bonds of what Buddhists call ‘attachment’, from the veils of illusion.  You can still love each other as friends- as companions through time.

We are just one people born into two genders. Your attraction to sex is an illusion.  If we could just live without our reproductive organs there would be just one people.  Instead we are born into two genders for the sake of continuing the human race.  Sex is an illusion.  Man and woman are equal just different genders.

For most people, the veils of illusion are strong and there is really a lot of detaching from ‘attachment’ to be done.