Need a spell to break up a couple

[he@dache]

Hello there [happyface]

I have a bad relationship with a girl, I tried breaking up nicely, then not so nicely, then started using 'direct magic' aka intent, then the Freeze spell, and finally opened the sigil of Frimost, from the GV.
Didn't work out that well.
Last working I asked for love to be taken away from her and from me by Frimost. We've had pretty serious incidents after that, but she still keeps coming back, sometimes threatening she will commit suicide. For reasons I'm not ready to discuss, our relationship is not only detrimental but also impossible.
People adviced to get the help of a rootworker, however I can do the work myself if I only know how, and I also tend not to trust others workings on my behalf.
Frimost gave me a feeling that what is involved is more than just love, maybe karma and other things, so either the working wasn't targeted well enough, or not exactly within the office of the respective spirit.
I wanted to start the year fresh, with new resolutions, but instead it seems I'm stuck with something I can't get out of.
I may need something stronger, or maybe I just can't 'magic my way out' of this one...
Any advice is welcomed.

T.I.A.

[TheSeeker]

Last working I asked for love to be taken away from her and from me by Frimost. We've had pretty serious incidents after that, but she still keeps coming back, sometimes threatening she will commit suicide.

The Gal needs some professional Counceling to help her cope with the end of your relationship maturely, not the intervention of an entity.

People adviced [sic] to get the help of a rootworker, however I can do the work myself if I only know how, and I also tend not to trust others workings on my behalf.

That may well have been me, I have directed others in your kind of situation to Rootworkers because we don't generally do the 'Here-Have-A-Spell' thing here on the OF.
The other thing I would say to you at this point is that you have commented that you can do the work yourself, and that you tend not to trust others to work on your behalf.
Think about this:
First of all, Frimost is acting on your behalf, and not getting the job done. Clearly you are willing to trust an entity you can't see, so why not a real person?
Secondly, Since you have enlisted the aid of Frimost --unsuccessfully-- I would suggest that you are not of sufficient expertise to do the work yourself.

I may need something stronger, or maybe I just can't 'magic my way out' of this one...

I would suggest it's the latter.
If she does become worse [i.e., more emotionally unstable] you will need something stronger: try going to a Relationship Councellor with her, and if that doesn't work, a Restraining Order. The Cops hand 'em out like chewing gum...

Frimost gave me a feeling that what is involved is more than just love, maybe karma and other things...

Karma-Schmarma... Ya know, sometimes you just can't magic your way out of shit because you're not supposed to.
Magic isn't a crutch.
Perhaps Frimost was telling you that it's not just about Her, and that you are to handle this yourself because it's something you need to learn in the here and now...
[neutral3]

[Vashta]

I strongly recommend professional help for anyone who is threatening suicide, if you receive a threat, send an ambulance, but don't go with her. Don't let it get to the point where she expects you to come and rescue her, and if things keep getting worse, a restraining order is a very good idea. It might sound harsh as hell, but, think of the alternative, think about how things have been escalating, and where that path will lead. Do you want to face the possibility of being held hostage by suicide threats for the rest of your life, or would you rather cut your losses and run? I know what I would choose It's very possible there is a lesson to be learned here, and there's no shame in that, we all learn our own lessons at our own times.

Good psychological support is available online from people with a lot of experience in this kind of relationship, and they will support you emotionally if you make the decision to leave, and I do advise seeking it, particularly if you find yourself in this kind of relationship often, but even if not you may find that living through a relationship like that can leave you with PTSD-like symptoms, and gradually rising stress and debilitating health. It sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder to me, just on the basis of what you've said, the suicide threats and toxic relationship style, but really it could be any of a huge number of very serious psychological conditions that leads to being suicidal. Look for some videos by AJ Mahari on youtube and see if it strikes a chord, but my advice, above all, is to take care of yourself. You're the only person ultimately responsible for you, keep that in mind, and, good luck.

[Stukov]

Or a restraining order.

[he@dache]

thanks, well a restraining order... I'm in China at the moment, not sure what the policy is here