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I was visited in a dream by a dark haired pale skinned woman and I want to visit with her again how do I do this

In the Sumerian tradition Lilith was an Anunnaki that liked collecting samples from human men.

That was not permitted in later religions so she is defined as evil.

When the sons of the gods took the daughters of men as their wives - that was not evil

Go back into the scene of your dream and look at the female.

Put various words next to her until you get a reasonable match/interaction

Try "was once my mother"

Lilith: Dark Feminine Archetype by Asenath Mason. Might be a book worth checking out.

Lilith has red hair, if that helps.