Does distance and diff in religion really matter in spell casting ?

girija · Post by **girija** » Wed Jul 28, 2010 3:57 am

I am very new to this occult world, i had asked few people to help me for my spell work , few frankly accepted no we would not be able to help you because of distance and more over religious practice we follow here and few who helped me could not get desired results though they could do some miracles but that couldnt help me wholly..... My one more question is they say if we do a ritual completely and systematically we should really see the results but i have been performing from past 1 year but i dont see any chnage in the situation can anyone explain why spells dont work when we do everythng systematically too?

Gandridur · Post by **Gandridur** » Thu Aug 05, 2010 6:37 pm

I'm a bit confused here. Not sure of what practice and religious stuff you are talking about. You have to explain what you mean. You can't expect others to understand something they dont know anything about. And was that a question? The second one, what are you trying to achive in the first place? Are you trying something that is above your knowledge and power? If that's the case, forget it. You wont succed with anything that is too advanced for you. You need to explain what it is you are trying to do to get an answer on that question. No one here can guess to give a better answer to your question.

girija · Post by **girija** » Fri Aug 06, 2010 4:15 am

Hi, thanks for your reply, I am sorry i dint realize tat people might not understand what i am trying to ask, actually i had previously been a memebr of this forum, i wanted help from someone here coz i wanted to get my love back, i asked people to help me or teach me to cast a spell, i did get lots of response and help, i started practicing and learning magick but whatever i did nothing worked according to what i wished , i just wished that let my lover come back to me love me and not get married to any other girl, his new proposals did break when i casted spells , but he never agreed to marry me either, i contacted ninja cats also for help she told me i cant take up your work and assure you results coz u are from india and ur religion differs bcoz of which i cant assure my spell work would help u get him married to u, then somebody from this forum reffered me to a spellwork guy from this forum whose name i dont want to disclose coz he did help me a lot but even his spell works could not change my boyfriends attitude towards me amy be becoz he is also from south america which is a far of place from india , he is as adamant or even more now and is not agreeing to marry me, but i dont want to give up bcoz i have been spending 5 years with him and 2 years doing spells magic on him, i have been spending lots of money to serach for a right person who could help me but none could help me properly, i know its wrong to change one's will and control one's mind but i am doing that coz he cheated me , he now wants to marry somebody else, but whatever why doesnt spells work as i desire or why dint the spell cast by those persons who tried to help me affect him to marry me though his proposals got broken and he did find many obstacles like he lost so much money when his dad wanted him to get engaged to a girl , but when the day they had to go and see the girl to fix engagement they did loose 5 lachs of ruppess which is a huge amount due to which they decided that the girl is bad omen and they broke the proposal themselves , they did try meeting me and fixing marriage with me too but this guy never accepted to marry me as he wants another new girl in his life

Gandridur · Post by **Gandridur** » Fri Aug 06, 2010 12:37 pm

No spell in the world can change his feelings for you. That can't be forced. For no one in the whole entire world! And even if it did work it would leave you with even more pain in the end. You dont need any spell my friend. You need help with psychology here. And lets start with it right now! ok here we go: And even if you got him back, why? Why do you want back a man that cheated and deserted you? If you got him back, why wouldn't he do the same again? I tell you, if he did it and got away with it like he did, he would do it again! You have already showed him that you are ready to accept it and that he got away with it. People do things that work so he would do it again. Why are you ready to take a chance like that? Why do you think that you dont deserve a better man than him? Is that what you call love? I tell you it's not him you love and longing after. It's the man you wished he was that you are missing. It has nothing to do with him at all. It's all the emotions inside yourself you want to relive again. And you will do that again some day. But make sure it is a man that deserve you. You have to stand up for yourself. Otherwise you will only meet a similar man that will treat you the same way again. Remember that people can only misstreat and abuse you if you allow them to do that. Stop that right now! Take a look deep inside you and make those necessary changes. And when you have done that you will meet someone who is better and worth it.

girija · Post by **girija** » Fri Aug 06, 2010 5:05 pm

Yes

u r right my friend.........every word u told is right.....i had a very bad childhood,that might have made me so stubborn , weak person, but why is it that i shud always let go everythng, i strongly believe there is some resaon why this is happening to me only, u know i had my first love he had his DOB 29/may, we liked each other soo much but due to difference in religion and strong opposition from his parents we had to breakup after 5 years of reln, then my dad got me married to a guy of his choice he divorced me harrasing for dowry within 3 months of our marriage, i got a kid bcoz of that marriage but i am a single parent to it

later i did my Mtech post graduation secured good marks and became a software engr later i joined a job but thr also i met Mr nirbhay whom i am trying to cahnge now he is also29/may born who showed lots of sypathy love to me so i fell in his trap , but now he is going away from me:) after 5 years

now i am working in adifferent firm i met another guy this year he is again 29/May born and he wants to marry me he says

but i dont like him nor love him.........why is this date revolving round me ? and moreover yes it may not be love its my emotions that i need to cahnge i have to take a deeep look into myself

i know that, but every time i give up, let him go,cant i get him back in my life...........i dont want to loose .....i was very depressed last year when i came to this forum and was pleading for help , but later may be gradually i started changing myself , now i am really more confident , i dont panic , i dont force myself on him, i dont get depressed, i dont plead people for help or stalk people

its easy to let people go but cant i mend my relation with him .i am tired of cahnging people, i will not loose hope nor will i make myself go into any depression, but i want to change my life i want him to come back and respect me i can wait for more years i wont panic,but i will not giveup, i know i can get much handsome and better guys and caring guys than him, but i think i have some problem in my horoscope , fate , u know all these 3 guys who came in my life are very good for the people around them they were intitally good to me too, but gradually they turn out to be very bad to me why so? i considered nirbhay as my god, i used to call him god never spoke anythng that hurted him even if got hurt, u know what he told me when i had last time conversation with him , ur god is no more to u from now on

i know it was my foolishness i treated him as god

knowing he is a human but i was in soo much of emotional disturbance when i had met him. in him i found lot of relief

may be that was the reason i loved him, but even he turned out to be a normal human :)who used me for his lust

anyway i am bugging u all with my useless story ,
My question was about spell not working as what i expected though i or other persons helping me systematically carry out all rituals, but today i had read a discussion in your forum about why magic works

that made me feel very good

yes its about our confidence

i think magic can happen only if we have a very clear mind and subconcious mind and have strong faith in what we want to achieve i was very weak, never confident that i can do some spell and change

may be that could be reason for my spells sometimes maifesting in some way and sometimes not manifesting at all

state of mind of the person asking for spell or doing spell is very important right?

Gandridur · Post by **Gandridur** » Fri Aug 20, 2010 1:26 am

Remember that you can't change others. Only yourself. The reason why lovespells fail is because too often they are looking for someone matching their ideals. And those ideals are mostly or only superficial. They dont trust their subconcious to find the right person. The best lovespell is the one where one let the subconsious to find the right person, leaving out all the ideals, looks etc. Most people find the right love with a person they never believed they they could fall for. That is because they dont know their self. And when they have found that person its because they have unconsciously used the subconscious to find the right person. Ideals are mostly just superficial and they are important just because they do not know their true self. The less one know about one self the more important ideals becomes. And like I said, most ideals are superficial. Only a few of our ideals are genuine. And when most people describe their ideal partner, it's them self they describe and too many want to find themself to wake up with. That person doesn't exist. Too many people want to change their partner to be the one they want them to be. I.e. to be more like themself. They see their new partner as a kind of raw material they want to shape. That is not possible. But sometimes they succeed in changing them to some extent. And what happen? They lose interest in that partner. Why? Becuase their ideals are not their true self and what they need and want. Oh I forgot something else important. Let me quoute you: "I had asked few people to help me for my spell work , few frankly accepted no we would not be able to help you because of distance and more over religious practice we follow here." That is total rubbish. Distance and religion doesn't matter at all in magic. Magic works beyond distance, time, place or religion. Anyone claim anything else is an amateur and lack knowledge about magic. Both in theory and practice. Ask any genuine magician, yogi, or any other genuine spiritual man or woman in your country, with knowledge in the occult,and they will say the same thing.