Please help protect us from mother's boyfriend!!

[Occultess]

If anyone is capable of protecting us (me and my mother) from my mother's boyfriend, please do so as soon as humanly possible. I don't have anywhere else to go. He is in a rage right now and I don't know if he's going to cool off by the time my mom get's home (in about an hour or so). I doubt he will. He is extremely angry and it is at both of us. Please, please help if you can. I am terrified! And I am terrified of him.

[Nahemah]

Can you get out of the house?

Get out and call your mom,if you can,to divert her and get yourself to safety too.

If you can't get out,call the police,lock yourself in the bathroom,find a way to get as safe as you can,however you can and get calling.I don't know how best to advise other than to get out and if that's not possible then get help any other way you can,from a local and immediate authority.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts of course,but you need a temporal solution,in the now,where you are and not advice from the forum.

Breathe deep and try to stay calm.

Please let us know you're ok,as soon as you able to.

[Occultess]

Can you get out of the house?

Get out and call your mom,if you can,to divert her and get yourself to safety too.

If you can't get out,call the police,lock yourself in the bathroom,find a way to get as safe as you can,however you can and get calling.I don't know how best to advise other than to get out and if that's not possible then get help any other way you can,from a local and immediate authority.

I'm keeping you in my thoughts of course,but you need a temporal solution,in the now,where you are and not advice from the forum.

Breathe deep and try to stay calm.

Please let us know you're ok,as soon as you able to.

Thanks, Nehemah! He's quieted down, though I don't know if they will stay true once Mom get's home. He's never hit, but he has threatened and I'm familiar with this type of anger from when my mom was still married to my dad. If worse came to worst, I could probably take the window out and get out that way. It hasn't been necessary yet, but I hate when he gets like this because it's terrifying. I have already locked the door to my bedroom.

I sent my mom a text message and told her to stay with friends, but I doubt she'll listen.

Thanks again.

[Nahemah]

Not immediate,but:

You need to talk with your mom,honestly,about how scared he makes you feel,it's not right and you shouldn't have to live in fear of anyone's temper like this.

Can you move out temporarily or stay with friends for a bit,get some respite and breathing space?

For now,I hope he stays reasonable and this diffuses peacefully and I'm hanging around for a bit signed in,Willing you all I can and hoping the situation resolves itself as amicably as possible,soon.

[Occultess]

Not immediate,but:

You need to talk with your mom,honestly,about how scared he makes you feel,it's not right and you shouldn't have to live in fear of anyone's temper like this.

Can you move out temporarily or stay with friends for a bit,get some respite and breathing space?

For now,I hope he stays reasonable and this diffuses peacefully and I'm hanging around for a bit signed in,Willing you all I can and hoping the situation resolves itself as amicably as possible,soon.

Thanks, Nehemah! I could use that. Amicable and peaceful.

I don't have the money to move out on my own right now and I don't really have too many friends (certainly offline). There might be one, and I know she would let me stay with her, but I'm not sure what her situation is right now, so I really don't know if she could.

I have spoken with my mom about that. It doesn't do any good.

[Nahemah]

It may be wise to think about moving out anyway and see what you can sort out for yourself given a little time and effort.

Your mom must make her own choices and if she won't listen to you,then you must help yourself to feel safe and unfortunately that will probably have to involve you leaving home.

Consider it as a possiblity,open your mind to it becoming one and then work on it,even if it takes a while,it seems the right thing to do for your own peace of mind.

I consider my home my refuge from all that lies outside and there is no fear or violence in here.It's so different to the strife I was accustomed to growing up and I was determined my kids would have the sense of peace and safety here that was lacking in my own childhood environment.

I do understand how you feel and I know it's dificult to think about right now,but ponder on it later,when you get some quiet time and space to think clearly.

[ CYBER HUGS ]

[Occultess]

It may be wise to think about moving out anyway and see what you can sort out for yourself given a little time and effort.

Your mom must make her own choices and if she won't listen to you,then you must help yourself to feel safe and unfortunately that will probably have to involve you leaving home.

Consider it as a possiblity,open your mind to it becoming one and then work on it,even if it takes a while,it seems the right thing to do for your own peace of mind.

I consider my home my refuge from all that lies outside and there is no fear or violence in here.It's so different to the strife I was accustomed to growing up and I was determined my kids would have the sense of peace and safety here that was lacking in my own childhood environment.

I do understand how you feel and I know it's dificult to think about right now,but ponder on it later,when you get some quiet time and space to think clearly.

[ CYBER HUGS ]

[ CYBER HUGS BACK ] Thanks, again!

I've resolved to get myself out already. Just not necessarily the most sure on how to successfully accomplish that.

[Occultess]

Everything was resolved peacefully. Thanks!

Santa Muerte helped me out, too.

[Nahemah]

I'm very glad to hear that,Occultess. [grin]

[more hugs]

[Occultess]

I'm very glad to hear that,Occultess. [grin]

[more hugs]

[hugs back]

Thanks for everything you did for me yesterday, Nahemah!