Protection

[InLakechAlaKin]

Hi. I'm here looking for advise on a friendship that has been bothering me for a really long time.

This man who I've made acquaintances with seems to have found in me a channel to direct his violence and bad energy, as I am a calm person and I never react when ie. he shouts at me and bables his non-sense, threatens me etc. This happened lots of times since we starting hanging out at his house and making music. I should note that he is somewhat practiced in chackras meditation.
I went through a rough time this past few months and he actually helped me to find my inner strength, he made a session of guided meditation with me, told me how to pace my breath and visualize white light etc, also I had one stone in each hand, one pink and one black. This went nicely, he then told me to look and try to focus on his forehead and asked me if I saw something, I didn't and actually I had trouble on focusing on his forehead, my gaze always snapped out of it.

Since roughly last month he has threatened me over messages and telephone, saying if he sees me he's going to smack me, kill me, stuff like that. I'm not scared of him, I'm simply tired of the things he has been accusing me of that are just ridiculous and all the hatred he has been sending my way, defaming me etc etc. I've had enough of this issue.

My question here is, what can I do in this case? Either to protect myself or to stop him from abusing my patience and myself? I know I'm righteous on this, also he has always been a violent person and his past isn't very bright. He used to be drug addict (cocaine and etc) and still is, but none of the hard stuff just joints I guess. But this part of him still prevails and flows towards ME who am much younger than him. I mean him no harm I actually would like to help him somehow, so keep that in mind. Thanks

[Ramscha]

Why is this guy still part of your life? Relativization by taking his good deeds into acount won't change the situation. Speak a clear word and when this does not help, walk the talk and cut him out of your life (thereby I don't mean murder or something related.... you get it).

[RoseRed]

Run as fast and as far as you can from this man.

[manofsands]

But this part of him still prevails and flows towards ME who am much younger than him. I mean him no harm I actually would like to help him somehow, so keep that in mind. Thanks

I agree with everyone, you need to separate yourself from this guy, but there is more to it. You don't see it as obvious that you should leave him. This tells me you have a lesson to learn from him. Don't take this as an excuse to stay with him. I'm saying you are going to attract people like him to you until you learn this lesson. Lessons are not always a joy ride, you're lucky if they're not too painful. Do your best to try to understand what life is trying to reveal to you in the least painful way. You can't escape the lesson, but you can choose the sunny or rocky path... though the way is rarely clear.

[RoseRed]

And one of the most important lessons in life is knowing when to run and when to fight.

[Aardvark]

In agreement with most everyone else here. I don't think you need magic to separate yourself from someone. Unless there's something you failed to tell us.

[Desecrated]

The chakra stuff you did is nothing powerful and he has no real hold over you.
This guy is acting out on you because you're letting him act out on you.

[InLakechAlaKin]

Hi,

Thank you all for advice.

I was feeling revolted because of the reasons explained above. I don't, nor I think I will ever understand why that man feels such a perennial anger towards me, taking in consideration that he once was so kindhearted. It was impossible for me to have a conversation with him every time he exploded, trying to reach him out into reasoning simply didn't work because every thing I'd say he would just diminish it away. I prefer not to go into details about what happened in particular as I consider it to be worthless here (as it actually is, comparing with the project we had been working on anyway).

I was concerned about my physical, and mental security because a) obviously because he threatened to shoot me and b) because since he was singing and I was following his voice, I don't know how far he had reached into my unconscious or somewhere in between. It is true that sometimes I hear him in my head, somewhat vividly, but I'm safe to say this is normal (like when you really like a song and it pops into your head, that's normal). Another thing that concerned me was the fact that on the day that he threatened me I had dreamed about him the previous night. You can probably understand how deep this went.


I've decided to ignore him and I feel relief. Also, a voice in my head keeps telling me that I should forgive him.

A big thank you to all those of you who replied to my calling.



In Lak'ech Ala K'in

[manonthepath]

If he is threatening your life and you feel unsafe, you need to contact the authorities as soon as possible. The next time you encounter this person (and hopefully you won't) you need to try to record the conversation on your phone. Then play the recording to the police. You have the option to file a restraining order as well. If you persist in your relationship with this man, you are asking for abuse and you will deserve everything you get. Stupid is as stupid does. Get the ..... out of the relationship!!!! NOW!!!!

[RoseRed]

If you persist in your relationship with this man, you are asking for abuse and you will deserve everything you get. Stupid is as stupid does. Get the ..... out of the relationship!!!! NOW!!!!

Now you're just being an ass that doesn't know any better.

That is ALL that I will say in the public thread. If you have any reply to that you can pm me.