HELP! Need to get rid of a bitch

[ndn_newsman]

Okay so there is a person in my life who is purposely causing me misery just for the simple fact she is being a bitch and doesn't like me. She destroyed a relationship with my man, she tried to frame me for a crime by stealing my gun and using it (Thank God I had an alibi and police report that said my gun was stolen). I saw the bitch on the street the other day and was so tempted to run her over but with held that. When she first came around, I did curses to punish her, but it doesn't seem to be enough. I NEED to get rid of this cunt, but I don't want to kill her or use a death spell against her. Is there anything I can do?! I am at a loss.

[Desecrated]

Restraining order- Make sure you cut all ties.

From a magical standpoint. The more you think about it the stronger the connection gets. What we hate only grows stronger.
So forgive her, take responsibility for the things you have done, and forget about it. Just try and move forward.

Clean your house. clean your mind. rise above.

[ScorpioMoon]

Lay Goofer dust where she walks or over her car wheels. Get some of her hair or an article of clothing and make a doll-baby from it, filling it with malefic herbs, graveyard dirt and cursing her (it) with each stitch. Baptize the doll so it becomes her once you make it, then torture it for a while (if you want) then bind it in some way, tying its arms, legs together, blindfolding its eyes and put goofer dust on its feet. Then either put it away somewhere in a dark place where it will never be disturbed, or bury it in the graveyard, giving it (her) a funeral then never look back.

Or you could use a spirit called Dratalon from EA Koetting's "Book of Azazel."

[RoseRed]

Do you want her to simply go away or do you also want to punishment/retribution/harm in any way/etc? That's going to determine which methods you'll be looking at to choose from.

Honestly, I would calm down a little first. Spells made in desperation usually go wonky and then it's a bigger mess to clean up than if you had just used a little Patience int he beginning. Yes, I know, easier said than done.

Intention and focus matter. What is it that you really and truly want?

You don't have to answer that publicly but if you don't - the best you can get is very generalized advice.

[ndn_newsman]

I want to get rid of her. I don't care about punishment and retribution anymore, I just want this bitch out of my life, out of my town, my rez. Restraining order doesn't do shit, the Tribal Police here are assholes and so slow and she is related to people in Tribal Court and on Tribal Police and always gets charges filed dropped in one way or another.

Once she is gone I can reconcile with my man. Maybe find some peace.

I live in a very rural Indian reservation and have very little in terms of supplies. Some Voodoo cursing oil, a few black taper candles, a black skull candle, parchment, doves ink blood, an incense called "Diablo" (orange powder that says harm another). Some sigils and older books. Any ideas?

[grimmos]

last survivor or you at that level in duels on diablo come one come all ....

[the_spiral]

I want to get rid of her. I don't care about punishment and retribution anymore, I just want this bitch out of my life, out of my town, my rez. Restraining order doesn't do shit, the Tribal Police here are assholes and so slow and she is related to people in Tribal Court and on Tribal Police and always gets charges filed dropped in one way or another.

Once she is gone I can reconcile with my man. Maybe find some peace.

I live in a very rural Indian reservation and have very little in terms of supplies. Some Voodoo cursing oil, a few black taper candles, a black skull candle, parchment, doves ink blood, an incense called "Diablo" (orange powder that says harm another). Some sigils and older books. Any ideas?

You can work harmful magic with sticks, dirt and leaves if your intention is strong enough. It sounds like your first priority is getting her to leave the area, so I'd recommend a banishment spell (you can write one yourself or find one elsewhere) coupled with Hot Foot Powder either in a sachet or sprinkled across her path/ in her shoes. One basic recipe is 2 parts cayenne pepper, ground black pepper and salt to 1 part graveyard dirt. Whatever your working, make sure you are very focused and channel your rage at all the harm she has done in your life and how much you want her GONE never to return. Keep working your mojo until you succeed in driving her out and take responsibility for all consequences of your work. Good luck [wink]

[Procel]

The first thing you have to do is get yourself under your own control. There is a certain truth to the notion that being angry at someone is allowing them some control over you. I'm not saying 'let it go' or fight hate with love or any fluffy bunny crap like that. If you hate the bitch, you hate the bitch. If she wronged you, she wronged you. That's all real. What I am saying is that while she has you all wound up, she has you all wound up. Get past the point where your anger is reactive. Consolidate yourself. As an older retired Navy man once told me before I acted reactively, "Get your shit in a tightly knotted sock before you make your move or it will get blown all over the deck." Get yourself into a position of strength and find where she is weak.

Devote time to identifying your own inner strength. Spend time every day focused on what you see as your best attributes. Even if they have nothing to do with this conflict, you need to build yourself up in your own mind. Spend time focusing your mind on yourself and devote time to physical exercise and to meditation. Strengthen yourself in every way. Let me repeat that in bold print, because it is REALLY important. Exercise and meditate daily. Do more, harder exercise that you do now, and meditate longer. You need to strengthen yourself in every way.

Devote a different time slot each day to studying her. Don't spend a lot of time concentrating on her and developing a bond, just study her like a dissected worm in a high school biology class. She is a subject, not a person.

The specifics of what sort of work you do is up to you. As you make yourself strong and find where she is weak, the answer will reveal itself to you.

[MAZOHIR]

I know what you mean about the police do nothing....they rarely ever do, and when they do, it's often either the wrong thing or excessive. Definitely banish her, if you know a banishing ritual. Keep doing the Ritual with great kavannah....intention....until it does something. Protect yourself ritually, magically too. There are many things you could do to just scare her, not actually hurt her, and that would probably be enough to do what you need.... hopefully cause her to leave you alone..have someone you know leave some fake voodoo signs close to her house or on her house...and maybe leave a "voodoo doll" with pins stuck in it around or on her door....but no real MAGIA to harm her.,,.fear is a VERY POWERFUL kind of MAGIA Do NOT do anything illegal, but I think you already know that. Deception is the Art of War....Sun Tsu

There is a reverse-kind of spell that often works even better....make her your friend.......even if you can't stand her......give her a small gift.......take her out for a coffee or something. It may just boggle her mind so much that she could change towards you completely. The Art of War------deception......Sun Tsu...Chinese Master
There's a saying:
Keep your enemies closer to you than your friends...........

[Procel]

Mazohir, A point I agree with and two points I disagree with in your post.

First, while I agree with using a banishing ritual with strong intention, I disagree with the idea of trying to scare someone off with theatrics. " There are many things you could do to just scare her, not actually hurt her, and that would probably be enough to do what you need.... hopefully cause her to leave you alone.." That is taking a half measure. When you have an enemy, you have to engage or disengage. Taking a half measure almost never works and back fires more often that one might like it to. Attack hard, or don't attack. Slap someone and they punch you back. Make a tight fist and knock them out and they fall down. Both examples of striking someone, with two different results. Attacking a little or creating a show of scary voodoo dolls will blow up in your face. The problem with scaring someone is it might scare them, and fear drives people in unpredictable ways. Some run, others fight. When they are scared, their intent is focused. By coming in with half hearted intent (to scare not hurt) you get someone either running or fighting and they have their intent all ratcheted up. If your not going to hurt your enemy, what's the point? You started off with what I whole heartedly agree with; doing something with pure, strong intent. You lost me at stepping it down so your intent is less than theirs.

Second point I'm not on board with is coming at her as a friend. Sun Tzu's admonition to "Keep your friends close. Keep your enemies closer." is apt but it doesn't necessarily mean pretend to be that enemy's friend. The quote is meant to remind you to keep your eyes on your enemy. Surround yourself with friends, but don't let your intentions and attention stray from those you must destroy. The OP should keep the pretence of ambivolence toward the enemy in question, but coming with gifts or invitations to break bread would be seen as weakness and in fact may be. Trying to " just boggle her mind so much that she could change towards you completely" is an attempt to use supplication to get into the aggressor's good graces. That's boot licking. A better application of Sun Tzu's strategy would be to get close to someone who is close to the other. That may help gain knowledge of her thoughts and actions, but isn't prostrating one's self to show her your pale belly.

Using a banishing ritual with focused intent can be a solid part of what I said before about getting your self strong in every way. Theatrics and fawning? Not the path to walk.

[Bluebeard]

Be careful. If you are at fault and want to harm others, you will suffer, a lot. Make sure you haven't wronged her somehow. Make sure you haven't wronged anyone else. Then you can cut ties as others suggested. I had a similar problem but worse; the people doing such stuff to me were like 5, not one. And changing residency or cutting ties did not help in my case. Then depending on your faith, you can pray/concentrate/ask for justice to be done, on whatever deity or belief system it is the one you have.

This doesn't work, start searching on protection magic. Western or Eastern. They have many good solutions on this.

[MAZOHIR]

Mazohir, A point I agree with and two points I disagree with in your post.

First, while I agree with using a banishing ritual with strong intention, I disagree with the idea of trying to scare someone off with theatrics. " There are many things you could do to just scare her, not actually hurt her, and that would probably be enough to do what you need.... hopefully cause her to leave you alone.." That is taking a half measure. When you have an enemy, you have to engage or disengage. Taking a half measure almost never works and back fires more often that one might like it to. Attack hard, or don't attack."

Your analysis is poor. Many times fear itself can win the "battle", as Aquinos paper "PSYOPS to Mind War" has pointed out. Using your mind against an enemy is superior to brute force.

You take measures sufficient for the situation, not just "destroy" an enemy. Attack as appropriate, even police are taught that.

"Slap someone and they punch you back. Make a tight fist and knock them out and they fall down. Both examples of striking someone, with two different results."

You're merely pointing out the obvious, but hitting a fly with a sledge hammer is just ridiculous and un-necessary.

" Attacking a little or creating a show of scary voodoo dolls will blow up in your face."

You don't know that, and for sure nothings going to "blow up in the face"---either it works or doesn't....if not, one applies a different tactic.


"The problem with scaring someone is it might scare them, and fear drives people in unpredictable ways. Some run, others fight. When they are scared, their intent is focused."

Again, pointing out the obvious, but doutful it would cause "focused intent", but the much more likely the opposite.

"By coming in with half hearted intent (to scare not hurt) you get someone either running or fighting and they have their intent all ratcheted up. "

Military OPS and police do it all the time, they don't just "blow somebody away" unless absolutely necessary.

" If your not going to hurt your enemy, what's the point? You started off with what I whole heartedly agree with; doing something with pure, strong intent. You lost me at stepping it down so your intent is less than theirs."

You keep re-stating the same thing. Who cares if "I lost you or not".

" Second point I'm not on board with is coming at her as a friend. Sun Tzu's admonition to "Keep your friends close. Keep your enemies closer." is apt but it doesn't necessarily mean pretend to be that enemy's friend. "

I don't care whether you agree with it or not. Deception is the Art. You have no idea what Sun Tzu meant.


"The quote is meant to remind you to keep your eyes on your enemy. Surround yourself with friends, but don't let your intentions and attention stray from those you must destroy. "


You need to try and re-read it, but that still doesn't mean you'll get it.


"The OP should keep the pretence of ambivolence toward the enemy in question, but coming with gifts or invitations to break bread would be seen as weakness and in fact may be. Trying to " just boggle her mind so much that she could change towards you completely" is an attempt to use supplication to get into the aggressor's good graces. That's boot licking. A better application of Sun Tzu's strategy would be to get close to someone who is close to the other. That may help gain knowledge of her thoughts and actions, but isn't prostrating one's self to show her your pale belly."

This is just lame nonsense.

"Using a banishing ritual with focused intent can be a solid part of what I said before about getting your self strong in every way. Theatrics and fawning? Not the path to walk.

"


Again, who cares what you think. My post isn't addressed to you.

[Procel]

Again, who cares what you think. My post isn't addressed to you.

Well, you seem to care enough to point out line by line how thin skinned you are.

If the OP agrees with you that silly games are "doubtful" to make their opponent more focused, they can run with that. If they know a bit about the police/mil "psy ops" you claim to know all about, then maybe they favor the use of overwhelming violence of action. Your experience leads you to your conclusions. Mine leads me to mine.

Whatever. The OP can listen to you or to any of us who have chimed in. Take what is useful to you, leave the rest. I'm not tripping on it.

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