Sex Magick for begginers ?

[RockDemon]

And one more question. So now I have a partner and me and she want to practice sex magick. So are there any well written books for begginers of sex magick ?

[Shinichi]

I firmly stand by the statement that Sex Magick, in its full practice and true essence, is not a beginners craft - and anyone who says that it is for beginner practitioners is very foolish.

If you want to experience something magical during sex, then before you do anything else, learn how to have really good sex. You don't need a ritual or a specific exercise to experience very powerful things with a good partner. Besides, being good at sex is kind of a prerequisite for being good at Sex Magick.



~:Shin:~

[RockDemon]

Well we don't have a problem with having a good sex and enjoying ourselves as well. But you seem to know a lot about occult and are very well respected here, so surely I'll take your advice, thanks. However any book to start with after I will have more experience? And how much experience do you think is needed for sex magick ? And is it necessary for my partner to be practitioner of occult as well ?

[Shinichi]

Franz Bardon teaches you Sex Magick when he teaches you how to use the Electric and Magnetic Fluids. He just teaches you how to do the actual magick bits without the physical sex.

As for books, the easiest contemporary intro to the subject is probably Modern Sex Magick by Kraig. If you want to do some hardcore studying, you can delve into Crowley's work or even older things like Magia Sexualis by Randolph. It depends on how thorough and scholarly you want to get. You can also look up "tantra" stuff that's relatively easy to work on in the mean time. Things like Sensual Massage are particularly easy to practice, and can be quite spiritual when exercised to that end.



~:Shin:~

[magari]

I firmly stand by the statement that Sex Magick, in its full practice and true essence, is not a beginners craft - and anyone who says that it is for beginner practitioners is very foolish.

If you want to experience something magical during sex, then before you do anything else, learn how to have really good sex. You don't need a ritual or a specific exercise to experience very powerful things with a good partner. Besides, being good at sex is kind of a prerequisite for being good at Sex Magick.



~:Shin:~

Seconded.

The best starting point is to understand exactly what sex is. Not just for humanity, but life and the universe overall.

If you can understand that then the power of sex is easy to tap into.

My only warning is that if this power isn't directed properly it has a will of its own. Be prepared for the consequences.

[RockDemon]

Okay thanks for your helpful answers. It seems that after completing the IIH one can practice any (or well most) form of magick, do I get it right?
So I am gonna give most of my energy to IIH for a while then dive into different magick traditions deeper.

[corvidus]

The Taoists have written a number of works on 'sexual alchemy', which in my opinion is a good place to start. Their techniques of cultivation and control are very good for a beginner. This isn't Magick proper, more a spiritual practice to clear the energy body and refine one's essence towards vitality. But the correspondences to sex magick are interesting.

Samuel Weor has a popular book available for PDF download called, believe it or not, Sexual Alchemy.

[cumquake]

I would recommend each invoking gods that are lovers and having sex as a beginner technique...thats basically the sexual magick that means anything as a loving couple anything else is ritual sex for a purpose or manifestation or attaining power or "immortality"

[Stukov]

I would recommend each invoking gods that are lovers and having sex as a beginner technique...thats basically the sexual magick that means anything as a loving couple anything else is ritual sex for a purpose or manifestation or attaining power or "immortality"

This may be a little childish but I laughed out loud when I saw your name and thread title.

[cumquake]

Yeah what do you use sex magick for? He asked for a beginner book there is no such thing...

[Stukov]

Your name is cumquake, you posted in a sex thread, you didn't do anything wrong, I found your name hilarious considering the context.

[Sypheara]

[thumbup] 10/10 would die laughing again.

Honestly though some good tips here.

[the_spiral]

Gotta second (third?) the suggestion that sex magic is not a beginner practice. You need to be familiar with raising and directing energy as part of a sustained magical practice in order to develop the required focus and avoid the pitfalls. However you can practice a very basic form of sexual magic by visualizing an intention during sex and then focusing on it intensely while "projecting" it out into the universe during orgasm.

As for books, I practice Tantra and while there are no accurate books available to Westerners (you really need to learn it from a lineaged teacher), you might try some of the many books on Tantric sex magic for ideas on developing your own techniques. Just avoid the Llewelyn titles (the one by Frater UD is ok but the rest are bunk) and that weird Demons of the Flesh one that claims to merge Tantra with Western esotericism.

[RockDemon]

As always lot's of work and thinking to do, thanks all for your advices. For the begining I will start reading some literature you suggested.

[RockDemon]

I would recommend each invoking gods that are lovers and having sex as a beginner technique...thats basically the sexual magick that means anything as a loving couple anything else is ritual sex for a purpose or manifestation or attaining power or "immortality"

So you invoke gods that are lovers just for the sake of love.. there is no purpose ... do I get it right?

[RockDemon]

Guys have any of you heard about "Luciferian Tantra" ?

[the_spiral]

Guys have any of you heard about "Luciferian Tantra" ?

I've heard of it. It seems quite popular right now for Western LHP groups, especially those of a Luciferian/Typhonian bent, to incorporate tantric and kundalini-raising praxis into their magic. Michael Ford wrote a grimoire about it which is probably worth reading if you're interested, and I know Thomas Karlsson's Dragon Rouge order also incorporates similar practices. But again, none of this is beginner stuff and you'd probably need a good base in both Luciferian magic AND Vamamarga tantra to work such a path safely.

I still think you should read and research different paths while building a solid meditation practice and using sexual orgasm as a general focal point for your intentions, before you attempt any of the more advanced practices. Sex magic is one of the more volatile forms of ritual out there and can really mess you up if you're not prepared to handle all the energy it raises. But hey, do as thou wilt [thumbup]

[RockDemon]

Yes I found Michael Ford's book, that's how I heard about Luciferian Tantra. But it got some initiation process , meditations before the actual sex rituals. So I thought it was suited for beginners. But I guess it is not ?

[the_spiral]

I just looked through Michael Ford's book and it's definitely not for beginners. I also have some questions about how he syncretizes certain concepts. I can go into more detail over PM if you want, but I'd approach this one more as an informational text than a practical tutorial if you're just starting out.

[corvidus]

If you're just starting out, I'd recommend as a basic beginning practice 100 days of celibacy for you and your partner.

Don't move on until you make 100 days.

If you can't control it, how are you going to...control it?

[magari]

If you're just starting out, I'd recommend as a basic beginning practice 100 days of celibacy for you and your partner.

Don't move on until you make 100 days.

If you can't control it, how are you going to...control it?

Good point

[RockDemon]

Yes I read the whole book, it is not for beginners indeed.
@ Corvidus
I see your point. Really a wise one. I consider doing it.
@ Spiral
I would love to, I'll pm you.